{"product_id":"9781615190546","title":"The Essential Guide to Gay and Lesbian Weddings","description":"\u003cstrong\u003eThe Essential Guide to Gay and Lesbian Weddings\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor(s): Tess Ayers, Paul Brown\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe original wedding planner for gay and lesbian couples—as fun and inspiring as ever in an updated third edition!\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWedding planning is never easy—but for gay and lesbian couples, it presents unique challenges. On top of watching the budget and wrangling your family, you may be wondering: How should we word the invitations? Who can perform the ceremony? What should we say to those who ask, “...why?”\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis trusty guide—first published when legal same-sex marriage was just a dream—tackles all that and more. Tess Ayers and Paul Brown explain how to get the planning out of the way so you can enjoy your special day! Here are tips on finding the perfect venue, vows, outfits, cake, kit, and caboodle, as well as:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e• Creative workarounds \u003ci\u003e(Have you considered a home wedding?)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e• Budget-friendly shortcuts \u003ci\u003e(Supplement the tiered cake with a sheet cake.)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e• The latest trends \u003ci\u003e(How to buck the traditions that don’t work for you.)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e• And sage wisdom, with a wink! \u003ci\u003e(Rule #1: If you invite them, they may come!)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003eIf you’d rather stay crazy about each other than go crazy, \u003ci\u003eThe Essential Guide to Gay and Lesbian Weddings\u003c\/i\u003e is for you!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eReview(s):\u003cbr\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Now in its third edition, this guide offers 22 chapters of witty, wise, and practical advice, covering everything from domestic partnerships and the concept of marriage to how to cope (e.g., being gay in a straight world). . . . This indispensable book also contains illustrations, inspiring photographs, and an extensive list of web resources.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLibrary Journal\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “A beautifully conceived and illustrated book that tackles every aspect of the wedding ceremony with humor and pride. . . . Tongue-in-cheek hyperbole is the hallmark of this thorough and witty guide, and traditional couples as well as gays will find its lighthearted yet seriously knowledgeable tone refreshing. . . . this book [is] as much a statement about gay life as it is a nontraditional wedding planner.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003ePatricia Holt\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003ci\u003eSan Francisco Chronicle\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “[The book offers] hints on how to deal with family members (an obstacle at many weddings but sometimes more so in same-sex weddings) with humor, and shared experiences that will help any couple put their wedding into perspective.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eTony Bravo\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003ci\u003eSan Francisco Chronicle\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “[The authors] answer with eloquence and wit the arguments that many gay activists have marshaled in opposition to gay and lesbians codifying their relationships in the same ways that straights do. . . . even the book’s most serious advice is generously larded with humor. . . . [Ayers and Brown] have left out none of the trappings.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eCharles Isherwood\u003c\/b\u003e, \u003ci\u003eThe Advocate\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “A chatty, humorous compendium of traditions, advice, and wedding details geared for same-sex couples.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003ePublishers Weekly\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “All you need is love—and this book—to have a great wedding.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eMelissa Etheridge\u003c\/b\u003e, musician and LGBT activist\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Everything you need to consider to plan the event of a lifetime—except the man or woman of your dreams.”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eEric Marcus\u003c\/b\u003e, author of \u003ci\u003eMaking History\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eIs It a Choice?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e “Even the straight and single will get a kick out of this book! I found myself having lesbian-marriage envy!”\u003cbr\u003e —\u003cb\u003eKathy Najimy\u003c\/b\u003e, actor and writer\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eISBN:  9781615190546\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e ","brand":"The Experiment","offers":[{"title":"Paperback \/ softback","offer_id":40869011030222,"sku":"9781615190546","price":24.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0600\/7029\/7806\/products\/O_4193b848-6684-4296-b776-08d2339bcb26.jpg?v=1644225456","url":"https:\/\/pickwickbookshop.com\/products\/9781615190546","provider":"Pickwick Bookshop","version":"1.0","type":"link"}